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Unbearable Whiteness of Being Added April 14, 2021 Gender Confirming Gender Added November 28, 2019 Getting Nothing for That Deal Added November 25, 2019 Who Should STFU? Added November 21, 2019 On Regret Added November 20, 2019 Body Words from the Past Added August 23, 2019 On Transsexual Metaphors Added June 24, 2019 We, The Transsexuals Added November 5, 2018 You: A Transsexual Love Story Added November 3, 2018 Sincerely, Your Transgender Friend Added November 2, 2018 Wonderful, Radical Transsexual Acceptance Added June 1, 2018 A Minimalist Guide to Gender - Transgender or Otherwise Added May 30, 2018 No One Talks About Murder Like They Talk About Transsexual Genitalia Added May 28, 2018 Call Me Enraged: Simplistic Transsexual Metaphors Added May 25, 2018 Be Daring: Love the Body You Have, Not the One You Want Added May 23, 2018 Off-Kilter Transsexuality: The Barrel of a Gun Added May 21, 2018 A Beautiful Form of Politeness Added November 9, 2017 What’s Up With Cisgender Anyway? Added October 14, 2017 Transsexual Man Becomes the Subject of His Life Added June 12, 2017 An Improved and Unusual Transsexual Origin Metaphor Added June 6, 2017 Transgender People: Your Unconditional Right to Creativity Added June 1, 2017 In a Weird Way, Gender-Neutral Bathrooms Might Not be Neutral Added May 31, 2017 Huge Gift for Transsexuals: Love Added May 30, 2017 The Value of Unsurpassed Transgender Self-Love Added April 18, 2017 A Perspective on Transgender Memoir: Where to Start? Added April 17, 2017 The Bottom Line on Disclosing Our Transgender Histories Added April 14, 2017 Strange Bathroom Logic of Transgender Opponents Added April 13, 2017 The Secret to What is Underneath (Transphobic) Shame Added April 12, 2017 Radical Acceptance: My Wonderful Transsexual Body Added April 11, 2017 Why I Might Not Tell You I’m Transsexual Added April 10, 2017 Simplistic Transsexual Transition Metaphors Added April 7, 2017 Breakthrough, Beautiful Transsexual Transition Metaphors Added April 6, 2017 Our Monumental Desire for the Binary Gender System Added April 5, 2017 If You’re Transgender, Are You Unnatural? Added March 16, 2017 A Fascinating Truth About Privilege Added February 24, 2017 Buddha Lives in Versailles & Dog Dung Added February 22, 2017 The Viewfinder Added October 19, 2016 A Confederate Flag Flew from a Northern House Added July 27, 2015 A FtM in a Pink-Ruffled Shirt Drives Into a Truck Stop Added March 23, 2015 Narcissism, Humility and Juiciness Added January 26, 2015 Are You a Book Marker? Added January 20, 2015 InTouch Magazine is OutofTouch, and So Are We Added January 19, 2015 The Right to Cause Offense Added January 14, 2015 Racial Sadist or Father of American Gynecology Added January 13, 2015 Read Better, Write Better Added January 12, 2015 The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Added September 6, 2014 Open City, by Teju Cole Added June 7, 2014 The Forever Internet and Our Digital Identities Added February 18, 2014 Limits and Having a Thing for the Blue Suit Added September 23, 2013 Transgender Memoir: The Ever-Present Memory Added August 12, 2013 Masculinity and the Feminism of Simplicity, Part Two Added August 9, 2013 Masculinity and the Feminism of Simplicty, Part One Added August 8, 2013 Fiction Friday: Rubyfruit Jungle Added August 2, 2013 Transsexual stories: You can’t have a hysterectomy! Added July 23, 2013 Trans Publishing Added July 22, 2013 A Transsexual Man Dresses Himself Added July 10, 2013 Sex and Chronic Illness Added July 2, 2013 There is No Try Added June 20, 2013 Manners: Those Pesky Pronouns Added June 18, 2013 Memory and Imagination in Memoir Added June 17, 2013 A Day of Rest and Thanks Added June 16, 2013 Fun Friday - ? Added June 14, 2013 Me and the Rain Added June 13, 2013 I Used to Give Up Added June 5, 2013 The Immorality of Messiness Added June 2, 2013 Washing by Hand and Other Vacation Adventures Added June 1, 2013 Why Not Wash the House by Hand Added May 30, 2013 First Summer Pie Added May 29, 2013 Dis/connected Added May 28, 2013 Relaxation Added May 26, 2013 The Plague of Plagiarism Added May 22, 2013 Cleaning Windows Added May 20, 2013 On Rejection and Moby-Dick, Expanded Added May 17, 2013 Gratitudes: Paella With Friends Added May 11, 2013 Radical Acceptance: The Universe is in Us Added May 8, 2013 Gratitudes: The Value of Waiting Added April 30, 2013 If It Weren’t For the Last Minute Added April 18, 2013 Who Owns Social Justice? Added April 17, 2013 What’s My Gender, Again? Part Two Added April 16, 2013 Setting My Own Style Agenda Added April 11, 2013 I Suppose I am a Grown-Up Man, Now Added April 10, 2013 Giving Up Coffee, Almost Added April 9, 2013 What’s Underneath Added April 6, 2013 Everyone Was a Child Once Added April 5, 2013 How Can I Make Today the Best Day of My Life? Added April 3, 2013 My first year in transition Added March 30, 2013 The Art of Doing Nothing Added March 29, 2013 The Aim of Life Added March 26, 2013 Dreams of a Life Added March 25, 2013 Time and Money Equals Why I Won’t Buy a $30,000 Car Added March 18, 2013 Today We Recycled the New Telephone Book Added March 16, 2013 It’s My Job to Pick Up the Trash Added March 15, 2013 Random Acts of Kindness in a Pink, Ruffled Shirt Added March 14, 2013 Naps are Fantastic Added March 10, 2013 On Disorganization, or When Things Get Away From Us Added March 5, 2013 Casey Legler - A Female Male Model Added March 4, 2013 Uncleared Curb Cuts Added March 2, 2013 The Gym Terrified Me Added February 25, 2013 Parker Mill County Park Added February 24, 2013 Writing Historical Memory and Responsibility Added February 21, 2013 Who Decides Who is Trans? Added February 19, 2013 Gender Paradox, An Excerpt, Part 4 Added February 12, 2013 Gender Paradox: A Life, An Excerpt, Part 3 Added February 11, 2013 Gender Paradox: A Life, An Excerpt, Part 2 Added February 8, 2013 Gender Paradox: A Life, an Excerpt, Part 1 Added February 7, 2013 Gratitude as a Political Practice Added February 6, 2013 Our New Kitteh: Moxie Added February 5, 2013 Lessons Learned From a Bucket Added February 4, 2013 Rosanne Cash Added February 3, 2013 The R-Word Added February 2, 2013 Preparation Equals Safety Added February 1, 2013 The Day My Gender Failed Added January 29, 2013 Ypsilanti: A Winter’s Sunday Squash Added January 20, 2013 Radical Acceptance: Our Time Here on Earth Added November 12, 2012 Ypsilanti: CBC Radio 2 Added November 9, 2012 Gratitudes: For Ms. H. Added October 22, 2012 Intentional Practice: What Roads Uplanned Await You? Added July 9, 2012 Little Somethings: There is No Age Limit for Riding Added June 20, 2012 Gratitudes: I’m an Idiot Some of the Time Added June 12, 2012 Transition is Hard Added June 7, 2012 No Hope, No Fear: On Radical Acceptance Added April 28, 2012 On Radical Acceptance: We Waste our Existence Added April 27, 2012 Growing is Forever, and Thank the Goddess for That Added April 25, 2012 Radical Acceptance: The Worst Betrayal Added January 21, 2012 Gratitudes: Snow Storming, Julie London and Perfidia Added January 20, 2012 Intentional Practice: Regret Analysis Added January 18, 2012 Ypsilanti: Archictectural Ruins at Gault Village Shopping Center Added January 7, 2012 Novel Writing: Completion Added November 30, 2011 Novel Writing: Hard Focus Added November 9, 2011 Intentional Practice: Constrained Choices, or The Work Uniform Added November 7, 2011 Novel Writing: The Novel Outline Added November 3, 2011 Radical Acceptance: With the Power Out, A Pencil Is In Added November 2, 2011 Radical Acceptance: What to Do When the Me That I Was Isn’t the Me I Am, Anymore, or Regeneration Added October 31, 2011 Intentional Practice: Personal Guidelines Added October 29, 2011 International Practice: Large Cash Purchases and Final Choices Added October 27, 2011 Radical Acceptance: My Fear of Hunger Added October 26, 2011 Gratitudes: Confessions of a Feminist Nutritionist Added October 25, 2011 Gratitudes: A Glorious Fall Day Added October 24, 2011 Why I Write Added October 22, 2011 Radical Acceptance: My Work - Novel Writing Added October 21, 2011 Bad Weather is Bad Preparation Added October 19, 2011 Web Realignment: Then and Now Added October 17, 2011 Web Realignment: (re)Writing My About Page, a Stub, Part 2 Added October 15, 2011 Intentional Practice: Goodbye to All That iPhone Email Added October 14, 2011 Web Realignment: Feeling Naked or the Beginner’s Mind Added October 13, 2011 Web Realignment: (re)Writing My About Page, a Stub Added October 12, 2011 Radical Acceptance: Being Here Now, The Hater Edition Added October 11, 2011 Gratitudes: F.R. Added October 10, 2011 Catalogues: Assets Added October 8, 2011 Death is Very Likely the Single Best Invention of Life Added October 7, 2011 A Transsexual Death Added October 6, 2011 Gratitudes: Ms. H. Added October 5, 2011 Little Somethings: The Lost Kingdoms of Africa Added October 4, 2011 Gratitudes: Hugh McLeod Added October 3, 2011 Website Realignment: What the Heck are These Transgender Cartoons Doing in my Life, Part 2 Added October 1, 2011 Website Realignment: What the Heck are these Transgender Cartoons Doing in my Life?, Part 1 Added September 30, 2011 Radical Acceptance: Clothing Added September 28, 2011 Creativity: My First Story Book Added September 27, 2011 Intentional Practice: Nothing to Say About Anything Added September 26, 2011 Gratitudes: Writing Everyday Added September 24, 2011 Early Morning Ritual Added September 23, 2011 If You Accept Death, Fear Disappears Added September 22, 2011 Radical Acceptance: Embrace Actions Not Expectations Added September 21, 2011 My Eulogy Added September 19, 2011 Making Myself Irrelevant Added September 13, 2011 On Excavating My Own Heart Added September 11, 2011 The Odds of Being Human, On Gratitude Added September 9, 2011 This Breath, or Why Change is Hard Added September 8, 2011 Finding Peace Within Added September 6, 2011 On Saying Nothing Added September 5, 2011 Managing the Irrelevant Added September 4, 2011 The FtM Thinks He Can Buy His Masculinity Added June 24, 2010 Do You Make This Mistake as an FtM? Added March 15, 2010 Visit the Doctor Like a World-Class Trannie Added March 2, 2010 An FtM’s Dilemma Added December 11, 2009 Side Effects Include: Enhanced White Privilege Added October 29, 2009 Archives Added November 21, 2007 You Know Your Wife is Devoted When… Added July 19, 2007 Where’s the Privilege? Added May 21, 2007 Too Small Added April 10, 2007 Self-Publishing - Part 3 Added August 16, 2005

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